Twin Oaks House & Gardens by Trademark Venues

Wedding Day

Our Wedding

It all started with family friends who insisted we needed to meet, and they were right. Once we finally went on our first date, everything fell into place. Brian showed up to North Italia bright-eyed and excited, and Shelby immediately felt comfortable. The nerves faded, the conversation came easy, and somehow the night still ended too soon.After that, things moved quickly, but naturally. Fletcher gained a pretty great dog dad, and somewhere along the way, we both realized this was it. The kind of love that you don't question, you just know. Through the adventures, the quiet moments, and plenty of laughter, we’ve built a life we truly love, and we can’t wait to celebrate it with you!

 How We Met

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

Our wedding will be outdoors in the summer, so we invite guests to dress in semi-formal attire that’s polished yet comfortable. Summer dresses, dressy outfits, and suits or dress shirts with slacks are perfect.

Dress Code

We’re so grateful you’re traveling to celebrate with us! For your convenience, we’ve listed several nearby hotels below that are close to the venue. We recommend booking early to secure your stay.

Fairfield by Marriott Inn &amp; Suites San Diego North/San Marcos&nbsp;for $241.33 USD&nbsp;per night&nbsp;- 3.5 miles from the venue Last Day to Book :&nbsp;Wednesday, June 24, 2026 <a href="https://app.marriott.com/reslink?id=1769195770937&amp;key=GRP&amp;app=resvlink" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Book your group rate for Thurston ~ Roach Wedding</a> Or call us directly (760)891-0111&nbsp;|&nbsp;mention code&nbsp;TRW Cancellation Policy: Must cancel&nbsp;14 days&nbsp;prior to arrival date for no charge

Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites San Diego North/San Marcos

Featuring a full-service marina on Lake San Marcos, this resort has 2 outdoor pools and a hot tub. Free Wi-Fi is included, and Legoland is 9 miles from the hotel. A flat-screen HD satellite TV is featured in all air-conditioned rooms at Lakehouse Resort. Each room with a private bathroom includes tea and coffee-making facilities. A desk is also provided. The Grill is open for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Offering golf course views, a terrace with 3 fire pits and a full bar, the menu features upscale American cuisine. A 24-hour front desk is available at Lakehouse Resort. Vending machines featuring snacks and beverages are conveniently on site. In-room spa services are also available.

Lakehouse Resort

Offering two 18-hole championship golf courses, a full-service luxury spa and eight sparkling pools, Omni La Costa Resort &amp; Spa Carlsbad is nestled on 400 acres in North San Diego County. Carlsbad Premium Outlets are less than 15 minutes’ drive away. The world class accommodations at Omni La Costa include luxurious bedding, a coffee machine with premium coffee, a marble bath and a small refrigerator.

Omni La Costa Resort & Spa

Travel

Dress CodeOur wedding will be outdoors in the summer, so we invite guests to dress in semi-formal attire that’s polished yet comfortable. Summer dresses, dressy outfits, and suits or dress shirts with slacks are perfect.

Children While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. Guest List Kindly note that invitations are extended only to those listed on the invitation. Due to limited capacity, additional guests (+1s) are not included unless explicitly named.

Details

Things to Do

Registry

Bartenders will be checking IDs, so please remember to bring a valid government-issued photo ID if you plan on enjoying alcoholic beverages. We want everyone to have a great time celebrating with us, so be sure to toss it in your wallet before you head to the wedding!

Shelby & Brian

Shelby & Brian

Q + A

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